I Failed To Save My Girl From Her Father

  • Published: 15 May 2019


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    Hi everybody! My name is Gordon, I'm 17 years old and for a year already I've had a girlfriend. Well, I HAD a girlfriend. I would like to tell you why I broke up with her.

    I liked Emma very much. She was so fragile, so modest, so beautiful. Most modern girls aim to be in no way inferior to guys but Emma was pure meekness. She always let me choose which movie to watch or which meal to order. And she never argued with me. I always felt very strong and masculine when I was with her.

    But as time passed, I started to find these particular qualities pretty annoying. Maybe I just didn't appreciate how lucky I was, but I got bored because she always agreed with me.

    The only thing that she was painfully strict about was time when she had to be at home. She was petrified by the very idea that she could come home after eight P.M..

    Once, we were stuck in traffic on our way back from the movies and she sobbed violently all the way home, and she didn't want to explain to me why she could not simply call home and explain that she would be like fifteen minutes late!

    At first I thought that her parents were very strict, but then I met them at a picnic and they seemed very nice!

    Emma’s mother was still very beautiful, and Emma looked and acted a lot like her, very quiet and polite. I doubt she has ever scolded anyone.

    Emma’s father, Mark, made a great impression on me! Very bright, witty, self-confident, and charismatic.I'm embarrassed to admit this, but I even tried to compare him to my own father… and my old man totally lost.

    So, I had taken a lot pictures on the day of the picnic and the day after my mother and I went to visit her sister – my aunt.

    I've loved aunt Mary since my childhood and I always tell her in detail about everything that is going on in my life. So she knew that I had a girlfriend and now I told aunt Mary that I had finally met Emma’s family and showed her the photos from yesterday’s picnic.

    Aunt Mary couldn't wait to see the pictures, until she saw Emma’s father in one of them. She broke off and it seemed like her hand was shaking.

    “Do you know what his name is?” she asked in a strange, empty voice. And when I answered: “Of course! It's Mark!” she jumped up and ran out of the room. My mother followed her and I was left alone in the room, totally clueless.

    Soon my mother came back, looking very serious. “She'll be alright,” she said, answering my silent question and then added: “But you have to know something. A while ago your aunt knew Mark very well. And it was the most terrible story of her life.

    And my mom told me that Mary and Mark used to go out together – a long time ago, before I was even born. In the beginning everything was fine and aunt Mary was head over hills in love with this brilliant, macho guy. But soon she realized that Mark was trying to control her more and more. He decided what she should wear, which girls she should be friends with, and even which books she should read. And when she tried to object, he became more and more aggressive.

    …When he hit her for the first time, she was ready to leave him. But he didn't want to let her go. He became so nice again and asked for her forgiveness promising that everything would change.

    But nothing changed. As soon as Mary thought that everything was back to normal, Mark started to tighten his grip. And everything turned out bad again, Mary tried to leave him, he wouldn't let her go, and the story repeated again. And again. And again.

    At the end, Mary no longer understood what was going on and what she felt toward Mark – whether she loved him or whether she was afraid of him. She kept telling her parents that everything was great and that they were going to get married. Until her older sister, my mother, noticed the bruises on her hands and demanded that she tell her the truth.

    My mother helped aunt Mary to get rid of her abuser, they went to the police, and Mary got a court order to keep Mark away from her.
    But Mary never got over this relationship. Neither pills nor psychologists could help her. Since then she has been afraid of being in a relationship and has stayed single forever.

    I was shocked. And as we went home, I was thinking about Emma, her mother… and Mark. I started to realize that he has not changed at all. I remembered that Emma’s mother was wearing a long-sleeved shirt - probably to hide the bruises from her husband’s hands? I remembered how both she and her daughter meekly agreed with him. I also remembered how Emma was scared of being home late, even like by a minute... she was scared to death!

    I have to confess that when I went out with Emma the next time… I conducted a cruel experiment.

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    ACTUALLY HAPPENED   3 months back

    Have you or anyone you've known ever met an abuser? Tell us in the comments and please share this story, 'сus we think it's really important - to resist people who try to control other people like this.

  • Rita Imamdi
    Rita Imamdi  8 hours back

    He set i like him gay

    • BoogeUNICORN06
      BoogeUNICORN06  9 hours back

      My sister was in a relationship with a boy who was So sweet and kind and a perfect match for her. They got on so well and they were a perfect couple. After a while though it got weird. Sometimes I saw bruises on her legs and arms. And Courtney grew aggressive. She would hide away in her bedroom and I would hear sobbing. There is a lot more to the story but eventually they broke up

      • Adel and Lumen
        Adel and Lumen  11 hours back

        0:13 him?

        • ShiEksdee
          ShiEksdee  19 hours back

          Spineless "boyfriend". I came from an abusive situation as well and also encountered a spineless creep like the "boyfriend" in the video. Couldn't love their way out of a paper bag. That's no man and no decent person if they know something is wrong and still won't do anything. Confronting that way is totally off base and disgusting. It could put her life in more danger. Thankfully I found a REAL person with REAL values to help me out eventually. Not everyone is as spineless as creeps like this video. To me, they are even worse than the abusers themselves. An abuser is an abuser. Someone who knows better and doesn't help, regardless if person is scared to reach for it = way worse.

          • Sunset Sparkler
            Sunset Sparkler  22 hours back

            My story is about me a lot

            • LaGioiaNonC'é
              LaGioiaNonC'é  1 days back

              Mettete i sottotitoli in italiano?

              • Mr ? Wild
                Mr ? Wild  1 days back

                You liked him so much what shes a girl 0:13

                • Kailani Velez
                  Kailani Velez  1 days back

                  my stepmother was so mean to me and my twin brother and my stepmother killed my brother

                  • Laela Permata
                    Laela Permata  1 days back


                    • Mostly_Hated_Ben ?
                      Mostly_Hated_Ben ?  2 days back

                      0:13 I liked him wthhh?!?!

                      • Christoffer Pettersen
                        Christoffer Pettersen  2 days back

                        huh... bet she got night time hugs from her father to.... after the mother went to bed...

                        • Talayisa _12gang
                          Talayisa _12gang  3 days back

                          What was he supposed too do he it's none of his business she make her own choices she chose to get beat so he left it's not his mission

                          • CB my boy
                            CB my boy  3 days back

                            My best f was a girl and she faked to be my girl becuse she wanted to make me happy but we keepd tocking like she dint know thow. it was my f that told me he said that she said that to him and don't tell me...😭but I'm stell f whith her but I moved to a difent city i did let her het me a lot thow😐.right now I'm home school'd but I can't stop thinking i was in love with a girl 3 or 4 years ago she was the 3poapler and she was nice but we r now gf and bf and i can't stop thinking about both of them

                            • Bro games For life
                              Bro games For life  3 days back

                              I know one I got whip by one

                              • Priyanka Yadav
                                Priyanka Yadav  3 days back

                                "I liked him very much"?

                                • Undecisive Angel
                                  Undecisive Angel  3 days back

                                  I hope someone gets brave enough to call the police on mark.

                                  • Lolololol Lol
                                    Lolololol Lol  3 days back

                                    At 5:58 till he said he will go to the police.
                                    Wth was Gordon doing

                                    • Nicole Shipton
                                      Nicole Shipton  4 days back


                                      • BRONX DORSEY
                                        BRONX DORSEY  4 days back

                                        So everyone is giong to ingnore that he forgot to put hi in the beginning 0:00

                                        • Jorge Jr
                                          Jorge Jr  4 days back

                                          So you are gay because you called her a him

                                          • Arisara Eriksson
                                            Arisara Eriksson  4 days back

                                            LOL u said u like him XD

                                            • Don't hate Me
                                              Don't hate Me  4 days back

                                              That traumatic dude..how can you suppose to leave her in that condition? You should have supported and incourage her more ...she must have still alone and Scared😨..how could you? You should have to Pursured her more if you sincerely loved her..your action doesnt shows at all that u truely love her...u r such a coward

                                            • Magma Madness
                                              Magma Madness  5 days back

                                              Did anyone notice that he called her a “he” in the beginning

                                              • Jr R
                                                Jr R  5 days back

                                                The person that’s talking called her girlfriend him at 0:13 and didn’t start off video right the first word he said was everybody not hi everybody 😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

                                                • Milla Tron
                                                  Milla Tron  5 days back


                                                  • Nathan lor
                                                    Nathan lor  5 days back

                                                    At 0:12 Emma was stated as a "him"

                                                    • George Atkin
                                                      George Atkin  5 days back

                                                      No one will know why this comment has so many likes

                                                      • Suga Cube
                                                        Suga Cube  5 days back

                                                        Who drew this?

                                                        • aryan ali
                                                          aryan ali  6 days back

                                                          I liked him wtf 😅😅😂😂

                                                          • 1000 subs For a cookie

                                                            Anyone here him say why I liked him not I liked her

                                                            • Trenx.
                                                              Trenx.  6 days back

                                                              A girl that didn’t care what movie and food you picked?!? You were one lucky man

                                                              • Robert Shelby
                                                                Robert Shelby  6 days back

                                                                6:21 girl you could have said no

                                                                • Tay and Make
                                                                  Tay and Make  6 days back

                                                                  is no one noticing that he said I liked him very much she like tffff

                                                                  • Shesha Mutuc
                                                                    Shesha Mutuc  7 days back

                                                                    omg worst boyfriend ever

                                                                    • Potatoman
                                                                      Potatoman  7 days back

                                                                      0:12 he said him

                                                                      • German a
                                                                        German a  7 days back

                                                                        Vre body

                                                                        • Tyson Boyd
                                                                          Tyson Boyd  7 days back

                                                                          He said I liked him at 0:11

                                                                          • Ila Brooks
                                                                            Ila Brooks  1 weeks back

                                                                            i wish my and my sister got along so well

                                                                            • Yael Velasquez
                                                                              Yael Velasquez  1 weeks back

                                                                              I know someone who used to have an abusive mom... the mom would always scream at her and her siblings. Kiera would always protect her siblings. The mom was almost always drunk and only acted nice with her husband. When the father left for work she would yell and hit Kiera. Then, Kiera started cutting her arms in 3rd grade. She kept doing it even when the mom and dad divorced until the beginning of 6th grade when her mom didn’t drink as much anymore and started coming over again and never abused Kiera it her siblings anymore. Why did Kiera stop there and then? She had an online friend who was also cutting and they both swore to stop doing it together. Kiera loved that person even if she tells me no. :)

                                                                              • Phoenix Masami
                                                                                Phoenix Masami  1 weeks back

                                                                                I feel sorry for u about this but one justice will be delivered and u will be happy

                                                                                • TSN Nemo
                                                                                  TSN Nemo  1 weeks back

                                                                                  0:11 he is gay Him??

                                                                                  • Erica Moore
                                                                                    Erica Moore  1 weeks back

                                                                                    Did Y’all a Peep Him Saying This In The Beginning “I Liked HIM Very Much” ??

                                                                                    • christin lorenson
                                                                                      christin lorenson  1 weeks back

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                                                                                      • Mr Nobody
                                                                                        Mr Nobody  1 weeks back

                                                                                        I met an abuser.
                                                                                        The abuser was my dad and the victim was me...

                                                                                        • Joyce Gibmson
                                                                                          Joyce Gibmson  1 weeks back

                                                                                          At 0:00 it sounded like he said blue bunny lmfao😂😂😂😂

                                                                                          • GAMING HUSKY
                                                                                            GAMING HUSKY  1 weeks back

                                                                                            That’s funny & stupid

                                                                                            • Kennxdy
                                                                                              Kennxdy  1 weeks back

                                                                                              At 0:12 Why did he say he instead of She.....