I Failed To Save My Girl From Her Father

  • Published: 15 May 2019


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    Hi everybody! My name is Gordon, I'm 17 years old and for a year already I've had a girlfriend. Well, I HAD a girlfriend. I would like to tell you why I broke up with her.

    I liked Emma very much. She was so fragile, so modest, so beautiful. Most modern girls aim to be in no way inferior to guys but Emma was pure meekness. She always let me choose which movie to watch or which meal to order. And she never argued with me. I always felt very strong and masculine when I was with her.

    But as time passed, I started to find these particular qualities pretty annoying. Maybe I just didn't appreciate how lucky I was, but I got bored because she always agreed with me.

    The only thing that she was painfully strict about was time when she had to be at home. She was petrified by the very idea that she could come home after eight P.M..

    Once, we were stuck in traffic on our way back from the movies and she sobbed violently all the way home, and she didn't want to explain to me why she could not simply call home and explain that she would be like fifteen minutes late!

    At first I thought that her parents were very strict, but then I met them at a picnic and they seemed very nice!

    Emma’s mother was still very beautiful, and Emma looked and acted a lot like her, very quiet and polite. I doubt she has ever scolded anyone.

    Emma’s father, Mark, made a great impression on me! Very bright, witty, self-confident, and charismatic.I'm embarrassed to admit this, but I even tried to compare him to my own father… and my old man totally lost.

    So, I had taken a lot pictures on the day of the picnic and the day after my mother and I went to visit her sister – my aunt.

    I've loved aunt Mary since my childhood and I always tell her in detail about everything that is going on in my life. So she knew that I had a girlfriend and now I told aunt Mary that I had finally met Emma’s family and showed her the photos from yesterday’s picnic.

    Aunt Mary couldn't wait to see the pictures, until she saw Emma’s father in one of them. She broke off and it seemed like her hand was shaking.

    “Do you know what his name is?” she asked in a strange, empty voice. And when I answered: “Of course! It's Mark!” she jumped up and ran out of the room. My mother followed her and I was left alone in the room, totally clueless.

    Soon my mother came back, looking very serious. “She'll be alright,” she said, answering my silent question and then added: “But you have to know something. A while ago your aunt knew Mark very well. And it was the most terrible story of her life.

    And my mom told me that Mary and Mark used to go out together – a long time ago, before I was even born. In the beginning everything was fine and aunt Mary was head over hills in love with this brilliant, macho guy. But soon she realized that Mark was trying to control her more and more. He decided what she should wear, which girls she should be friends with, and even which books she should read. And when she tried to object, he became more and more aggressive.

    …When he hit her for the first time, she was ready to leave him. But he didn't want to let her go. He became so nice again and asked for her forgiveness promising that everything would change.

    But nothing changed. As soon as Mary thought that everything was back to normal, Mark started to tighten his grip. And everything turned out bad again, Mary tried to leave him, he wouldn't let her go, and the story repeated again. And again. And again.

    At the end, Mary no longer understood what was going on and what she felt toward Mark – whether she loved him or whether she was afraid of him. She kept telling her parents that everything was great and that they were going to get married. Until her older sister, my mother, noticed the bruises on her hands and demanded that she tell her the truth.

    My mother helped aunt Mary to get rid of her abuser, they went to the police, and Mary got a court order to keep Mark away from her.
    But Mary never got over this relationship. Neither pills nor psychologists could help her. Since then she has been afraid of being in a relationship and has stayed single forever.

    I was shocked. And as we went home, I was thinking about Emma, her mother… and Mark. I started to realize that he has not changed at all. I remembered that Emma’s mother was wearing a long-sleeved shirt - probably to hide the bruises from her husband’s hands? I remembered how both she and her daughter meekly agreed with him. I also remembered how Emma was scared of being home late, even like by a minute... she was scared to death!

    I have to confess that when I went out with Emma the next time… I conducted a cruel experiment.

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    ACTUALLY HAPPENED   1 months back

    Have you or anyone you've known ever met an abuser? Tell us in the comments and please share this story, 'сus we think it's really important - to resist people who try to control other people like this.

    • Murial Nel
      Murial Nel  2 hours back


    • steggy
      steggy  6 hours back


    • Window Dove
      Window Dove  20 hours back


    • Hawa Dafala
      Hawa Dafala  1 days back

      So enjoyable stories

    • ricky salayandia
      ricky salayandia  1 days back

      ACTUALLY HAPPENED he would hit me since l was 3 years old and went on for 8 years and now I am 11 and he went to jail and he was my step father.When he went to jail my mom lost everything we lost our house and are dogs and when we where moving out we got robed and lost everything now we live with my grandma

  • the master dabber
    the master dabber  12 minutes back

    0:13 did I hear him or Emma 🤔🤔🤔

    • Justyna Jóźwiak
      Justyna Jóźwiak  52 minutes back

      I love Acctualy Happend

      • Ako
        Ako  1 hours back

        0:13 he gay

        • Will Cao
          Will Cao  2 hours back

          I had a crush then she suddenly started to be mean to me and I finally broke up with her

          • Will Cao
            Will Cao  2 hours back

            But I’m am a kid

            • Will Cao
              Will Cao  2 hours back

              Nooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo that is not appropriate for kids

              • baseballmom67's worst nightmare

                This is actually really sad.

                • Kamilo Muliaga
                  Kamilo Muliaga  3 hours back

                  if he doesn't understand stand why do you always cry after 8 pm even after 1 minute also here is some proof so why-why was she scared

                  • mc Julia
                    mc Julia  4 hours back

                    You should really try to talk to her again. She's probably afraid that it'll all get worst! Please, try to call the police on him or talk to supportive services

                    • Joseph Leather
                      Joseph Leather  5 hours back

                      Jokes on you I don't have a girlfriend

                      • Thedragon lover95
                        Thedragon lover95  5 hours back

                        This story makes no sense,I doubt this ACTUALLY HAPPENED

                        • Nonoko der Octopus
                          Nonoko der Octopus  5 hours back

                          0:12 did he just call his gf "him"??
                          Welp it's pride month anyways

                          • The mystery Guy
                            The mystery Guy  5 hours back

                            Lol he said I loved him

                            • Neonlatios Neo
                              Neonlatios Neo  5 hours back

                              TF 0:12 i like him nani?

                              • Corey Beebe
                                Corey Beebe  6 hours back

                                Go back to her

                                • Amir Watson
                                  Amir Watson  6 hours back

                                  I went through the same thing with my boyfriend it's kinda like what happened to your aunt

                                  • Tydey
                                    Tydey  6 hours back

                                    i LiKed HiM VeRy MuCh 0:11

                                    • Simon Deng Yien
                                      Simon Deng Yien  6 hours back

                                      I liked HIM! very much...

                                      • Mason O’ Grady
                                        Mason O’ Grady  7 hours back


                                        • Reetox
                                          Reetox  8 hours back

                                          Gordon's aunt: *seems like her hand is shaking*

                                          Also Gordon's aunt: *throwing away a cup of coffee*

                                          • Yuki OwO
                                            Yuki OwO  9 hours back

                                            How to get likes:

                                            “You’ve been _____ by ______, Like to undo”

                                            • Xavier
                                              Xavier  9 hours back

                                              Groomed mother and daughter... Goodness!

                                              • Mister Boom Boom Gamplayer

                                                You And James Are Dating Like To Undo

                                                • Tabitha Rodriguez
                                                  Tabitha Rodriguez  11 hours back

                                                  How i got to the airport with a jetpack

                                                  ACTUALLY HAPPENED

                                                  • Jordan Bernal
                                                    Jordan Bernal  12 hours back

                                                    I was abused before I got over it

                                                    • Jordan Bernal
                                                      Jordan Bernal  12 hours back

                                                      WARE YOUR LONG SLEEVES YOUNG CHILD

                                                      • XxFazefirexX 67
                                                        XxFazefirexX 67  13 hours back

                                                        My friend Brayden’s mom was abused same story except that he meet my aunt

                                                        • Nikki Lynn Gordon
                                                          Nikki Lynn Gordon  15 hours back

                                                          *natsuki intensifies*

                                                          • tAyeoN'S DaUGhteR
                                                            tAyeoN'S DaUGhteR  16 hours back

                                                            I we're breathing..

                                                            *ACTUALLY HAPPENED*

                                                            • Chrisk D
                                                              Chrisk D  17 hours back

                                                              I love this art style<3 Who is the artist, I really want to know😍😍😍

                                                              • KEITH
                                                                KEITH  17 hours back

                                                                we love a strong and masculine queen

                                                                • Jeremiah Delia
                                                                  Jeremiah Delia  18 hours back


                                                                  • Crazy Beehive
                                                                    Crazy Beehive  19 hours back

                                                                    0:12 proof that’s he’s gay now and that’s why he broke up

                                                                    • Kushi Banwait
                                                                      Kushi Banwait  20 hours back

                                                                      you broke up with a girl and u said i liked him! 0:12

                                                                      • Alessa Devon
                                                                        Alessa Devon  20 hours back

                                                                        Lmao 'she was the perfect girl because she never argued with me and let me pick the movie and the food !' oKaY

                                                                        • Daniel Mcclure
                                                                          Daniel Mcclure  20 hours back

                                                                          I burped

                                                                          actually happend

                                                                          • Maddie Stewart
                                                                            Maddie Stewart  22 hours back

                                                                            Why are there so many idiots in these comments... Any actual comments on the video?

                                                                            • Amanda Weaver
                                                                              Amanda Weaver  22 hours back

                                                                              Emma is so pretty

                                                                              • GamingwithSonic
                                                                                GamingwithSonic  22 hours back

                                                                                I exist
                                                                                *ACTUALLY HAPPENED*

                                                                                • olive- flowers and kisses

                                                                                  My crush asked me out!

                                                                                  ACTUALLY HAPPENED
                                                                                  She was a girl
                                                                                  No I’m not gay I’m bi

                                                                                  • deanna woods
                                                                                    deanna woods  23 hours back

                                                                                    I have never been in an abusive relationship, but my aunt was. I don't think he ever hit her, but he controlled almost every aspect of her life. He left her because she told her Facebook friends that she was pregnant and some of these people were men. She lost her baby and he went on to be with some other woman. She hasn't seen him since.

                                                                                    • Doublecherrysoda
                                                                                      Doublecherrysoda  24 hours back

                                                                                      Did he say him at 0:13??

                                                                                      • Lele OwO
                                                                                        Lele OwO  1 days back

                                                                                        Did he just say *i likes him very much* to a girl

                                                                                        • Artur Morgan
                                                                                          Artur Morgan  1 days back

                                                                                          Great stori I lov ur chanel it is soooooo cul I am 4 and it is sooo rili

                                                                                          • Amber Perez
                                                                                            Amber Perez  1 days back

                                                                                            O that girl was a him

                                                                                            • aaron hart
                                                                                              aaron hart  1 days back

                                                                                              you sed him

                                                                                              • gb-channel
                                                                                                gb-channel  1 days back

                                                                                                Now I remember why one of my daughters always wore clothes to hide her scars ,everytime she was with me , always agreed to whatever to do. I have wondered since

                                                                                                • gb-channel
                                                                                                  gb-channel  1 days back

                                                                                                  I have to tell that she lived with the mother and her boyfriend.